Sapphire_Gal's comments --
Sometimes, I wonder if we actually improve because of experience. Well, I could understand you can get better at certain things, like playing soccer or doing math. In the realm of relationships, does one actually learn from experience? The easy answer is "yes," but let's say if you meet the "right" person the first time around, that you guys are compatible and there's no need to round off the rough edges, does having experience really matter or benefit your relationship?
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So I would just like to say that my point wasn't really that learning would ultimately improve or benefit your relationships. Of course there is that live and learn element and you can't easily disregard that learning curve and how it applies to all areas of your life. I was really just saying that in the end, you can't take anything with you. You can not take your money with you, you can not take your loved ones with you. Each moment that passes is another moment gone by, you can not even hold on to any one moment. So what do you really have? You have your experiences, in the form of memories. You have your thoughts to hold on to. I know this is all rather metaphysical and overly contemplative. But at the end of one's life, the only pronouncement one can say is, "I existed once."
3 comments:
I have come to the conclusion that this Toronto person must be your secret lover. SECRET LOVER!!!!! SPEAK FOR YOURSELF TORONTO! I CALL YOU OUT! I KNOW YOU SEE THIS!
Jason has been monitoring who comes to my site. And your company is listed at Toronto, CN. So he's been wondering who the Toronto visitor is. Turns out, my life is not half as exciting as I would like it to be. Sigh...
you guys are too funny. Viola's company is canadian?!!
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